Well, while the guy I met via the net recently is still pleasant to talk to he has gotten ahead of himself two times already. The previous conversation I wrote about, I left out the single thing that was a warning light. We spoke about cars and at one point he asked if I drive. I told him no and we talked about why. He eventually said he’d teach me if I’d like. I brushed that off, but automatically thought he was jumping the gun with that. We live states away, just met, that night was our first day to converse and he comes up with that?
Well, I saw him again tonight. We haven’t swapped emails as much since he got on late, but another light went off. He wanted to see if we could talk on the phone before he called it a night. This is the second night we’ve conversed and he asks that?!
To my luck, I don’t use phones anyway. Ah, auditory processing disorders… I explained to him about the whole problem phones give me. He responded that he was sorry about that. Sigh…
If this happens a third time, I guess I’ll just have to give up. I’ll likely talk to my mom about what occurred tonight at some point. I told her about him tonight. She seemed uncertain. I told her my views vaguely and she easily got what I meant. She knew I was pretty uncertain myself, I think.
While I’ve always liked the idea of having the protective brothers who’d make a potential person for me quiver in fear for hanging out with me and the father who will make threats and give “the talk”, it surprised me when my mother told me more or less that if anyone was interested in me in a way that was beyond decent, the person wouldn’t have time to worry about my brothers. She’d have the guy in prison.
That left me with all smiles. I hugged her and told her it made me feel so loved. Yeah, most people would likely dread having a protective family like that, but it actually comforts me. It reassures me, makes me feel protected and makes me know I am very much loved. I am happy.

Update:

After “holding council”, I decided to just block him. While he was nice and everything, he made a yellow light turn on the first night and then a red one on the second. I didn’t feel anything in regards to him and the red light was unnerving. I blocked him.